Help! my kid just came out

Are you Christian? Are you the parent or guardian of an LGBTQ+ child? Do you love your child, accept and embrace their identity?


If your answer to these questions is YES, then you can participate in this incredible project!

What is this project about?

Many Christian parents or guardians whose kid comes out need support and guidance. (Maybe you did too when your kid came out? 😉)

And for good reason, too: it can be so scary and disorienting to even start understanding something that, up to that point, is completely unknown.

What does it mean to be LGBTQ+? Will they be safe? Is it a sin? Did they choose this? Will they be happy? Is it my fault? What about all the plans we had for them? How can we protect them from harm?

The questions are endless – and not having the answers can sometimes be isolating and terrifying.

A lot of Christian parents or guardians have gone through this before.

Through their journey to acceptance and love, they've learned, found answers, and discovered that supporting their children's LGBTQ+ identity is absolutely compatible with their faith.

Wouldn't it be great if these two groups of parents could share their experiences in a setting of love, patience and acceptance?

They can! ‘Help, my kid just came out!’ will gather video testimonials of Christian parents or guardians whose kids have come out.

By sharing their experience, they will help other parents who might still be struggling to get the answers and the empathy they need.
Who can participate?

To participate you must be:

  • Christian, of any denomination or group.

  • A parent or guardian of an LGBTQ+ child.

  • At least 18-years-old.

  • Supportive and loving of your child and their LGBTQ+ identity.

Is this you? Then keep reading to find out how you can join in!

Option 1: Record yourself and send your video

HOW DO I RECORD MY VIDEO?


In this link you'll find full instructions for the recording.

WHAT DO I SAY IN THE VIDEO?


In this link you'll find a list of questions you can answer in your videos. You can answer any or all of them.

WHERE DO I SEND MY VIDEO?


You should upload your video to YouTube in so-called Unlisted Mode. Once you’ve done that, click the button that says I'm ready to send my video below.


(Instructions to upload your video to YouTube in Unlisted mode can be found here.)
Option 2: Fill in the form to be selected for an online interview

WHAT FORM DO I FILL IN?


We'll ask you questions about yourself, your kid, your Christian denomination, your location etc.

The reason we're asking all of this is to have a diverse pool of parents or guardians.

WHEN WILL THE INTERVIEWS BE RECORDED?


If selected, you’ll be interviewed by a member of our project team. It will be an informal conversation and won’t require any preparation on your part.

WHAT IF I'M NOT CONTACTED?


We'll contact everyone, even if it's to say we have not selected them for a live interview at this time.

Do you know a Christian parent or guardian of an LGBTQ+ kid that might want to share their story?

Share this page with them!

Who is making Help, my kid just came out! happen?
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All Out is a global movement for love and equality. We're mobilizing thousands of people to build a world where no person will have to sacrifice their family or freedom, safety or dignity, because of who they are or who they love.

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Q Christian Fellowship prophetically models a world where all LGBTQ+ people are fully loved by family, church, and community, and Christians worldwide live up to their calling to be instruments of grace and defenders of the outcasts.

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